I had a 2011 Pilot with VCM and lived the issues, fouled plugs, oil consumption and limp mode activation. Honda did multiple plug replacements, ECM updates and finally put new rings on the engine at 130K. Nothing out of pocket to have any of this done. These problems started around 60K if I remember. Ran great post rings update. First time I took it in to my local dealer, the second time was towing a trailer from Wichita to Boston and the Honda dealer in Columbia MO took care of it. They recommended the ring change and after returning home from Boston, I took it to my local dealer who pulled the history and immediately scheduled it in for rings.
Fast forward to 2019 and my Ridgeline. It exhibits none of the VCM issues (oil consumption, fouled plugs) that the Pilot did. Honda also got rid of the VCM button from 2011 and made it the Eco button in the 2019 Ridgeline. I do not have to add oil between oil changes and the plugs at 100K all looked great.
Personally I am not too concerned with VCM and issues this far down from its inception. If you do experience issues, get it in to the dealer and get it documented. Once it was in the first time and documented, other than the pain of having it happen again, there were no issues with Honda following through with that service trail. No issues with me doing all my own maintenance either.