I agree with your questions. I went into my car to make the updates and it says it is up to date. I think they were auto installed with the car off, but not sure. I have not gotten back to check the system version to see if it shows these updates, but it is confusing.
If I had a knock against Honda or the Passport it is on their documentation and implementation of their electronics. My wife just bought a Volvo and their electronics are amazing plus the documentation is fully detailed. What you can do with and to your car from your phone is remarkable. Then you look at the Passport and you can't program it to have the door mirrors fold back when the car shuts off. Wow ... Now don't get me wrong, the passport is a very good car but the end of year clearance at Volvo brought the XC60 into the same price range.
If I had a knock against Honda or the Passport it is on their documentation and implementation of their electronics. My wife just bought a Volvo and their electronics are amazing plus the documentation is fully detailed. What you can do with and to your car from your phone is remarkable. Then you look at the Passport and you can't program it to have the door mirrors fold back when the car shuts off. Wow ... Now don't get me wrong, the passport is a very good car but the end of year clearance at Volvo brought the XC60 into the same price range.