Any input would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
I agree with the other members here. AWD can be a blessing when you are driving through that difficult road condition, or it could make you overconfident and put you in a situation far worse . . . like going a bit too offroad for your skill level. Been there, done that.
We lived many years in snowy-winter country, and never owned 4WD or AWD. We learned through trial & error how our vehicles handled in the slippery stuff, and didn't venture far off the beaten path. Developed driving skills and learned how to get through rough weather with just FWD. Our first 4WD we got was a used 1979 full size Jimmy, and almost got stranded when we ventured too far and too deep, assuming 4WD could get us anywhere. Overnight stuck and hours of sweat, tears, swearing, and praying, we were saved/assisted by a hunter dragging us to safety in his late 60's rear wheel drive old pickup. He had skill and experience that far surpassed our overconfidence in locking hubs and 4-low transfer case.
Lots a Subarus in Oregon . . . Mt. Hood, Mt. Bachelor parking lots are filled with em. Very popular, especially Outbacks, if you don't mind that CVT and maintenance. Haven't heard about premature tire wear, though. We bought Passport for its size and style, needed something that could tow occasional 2500-3500lb, and got AWD because Passport does those things, and Honda iVTM4 (and similar Acura SH-AWD) acts as a type of 'limited-slip.' We rarely do anything offroad (perhaps a long gravel driveway?), very few trips in snow (less than inch deep or so), and no mud or slimy stuff (gotta keep the Diamond White paint white). But iVTM4 is always there, providing additional traction and torque as needed to help keep us safe and shiny-side up. That makes it worth the price and peace of mind for us.
Good Luck, and hope you find great satisfaction in whichever decision you make.
