Just picked up a 2020 EX-L Monday. Finally decided to walk away from Subie's after owning 5. This is the largest and most powerful vehicle I've owned for a loooong time LOL, and certianly the most expensive ever. Looking forward to learning all things Honda and Passport and my owners manual is close at hand so hopefully I won't do something stupid.
Welcome to the forum! The mirrors need to be adjusted to where you want them (along with your seat position) and then set the driver memory. This will keep your mirrors set in place. Also note that on the back of the keyless entry fob there is a designation driver 1 and driver 2. I have it so fob #1 is memory setting #1 and same for #2.