Have you tried doing via USB? Maybe that would reset everything.
usb.honda.com
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OTA USB Website
The Honda OTA for USB website can update Honda vehicles at home using your computer.
I tried updating via USB but that doesn't happen. While the system is "loading" I cannot select USB or anything else on the "Systems Update" screen.Have you tried doing via USB? Maybe that would reset everything.
OTA USB Website
The Honda OTA for USB website can update Honda vehicles at home using your computer.usb.honda.com
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