What would be the best way to fix this?
I may go with the jcastisa wheels and tires package, but it brings it down from 20" to 18".I have it too. More on the rear passenger side. The most of it I will blame on my driving a larger SUV than I have had in a while. I have kissed a few curbs that have gouged the rims out. Totally my fault. I think I eventually will swap out the factory rims for a more sportier look. In the real world, while you may think it's a bad look, no one is looking at your wheels but you. LOL
Where are you located? My Honda Shop in HB, CA has a service that can buff out curb rash.