[stetrain]

It's available as an accessory part for the 2019 Pilot, this site says it's compatible with all but the LX trims:

https://www.bernardiparts.com/Honda-Heated-Steering-Wheel-Pilot__08U97-TG7-110A.aspx

Heated steering wheel is also listed under Accessories in the press kit:

https://hondanews.com/honda-automobiles/releases/2019-honda-passport-press-kit#Accessories

 

[stetrain]

Once you have a vehicle with a heated steering wheel there is no going back. But not sure I can justify spending the extra $2K for the Elite to get it.

You could spend a few hundred instead for the heated steering wheel accessory.