I hear you. Always have had V6 Honda’s. First 4 popper turbo for us. We were actually going to get the Accord back when we got the Passport. And here we are. I was hell bent always staying with a Honda V6. But, when the transmission failed early on and could have left me stranded. It completely turned me off from the vehicle and hated it from there on out. We have owned many Honda vehicles with out a single issue. All Accord’s btw with the exception of the Passport. All bought brand new. Never had engine or transmission issues with any of them let alone complete transmission failure like in the PP. I already like this 10 speed transmission much much better in the Accord. It’s so smooth and snappy.
It pairs very well with the engine/turbo. I trust this vehicle a bit more because Honda makes incredible long lasting engines and it has an in house Honda built transmission. I know the 10 speed started out a bit rocky. But, things have been ironed out by now. Especially with the 2021 being a mid cycle refresh.